Conversation at Sunday lunch drifted to public speaking - the fear thereof. As Seinfeld says, at most funerals people would rather be in the casket than delivering the eulogy. I say, anybody can do it. Kids say, you would say that.
What I should have said next has only just occurred to me.
You're mistaken if you believe that people who are good at public speaking worry about it less than people who are frightened of it.
They worry about it more.
They deal with that worry by spending a lot of time preparing. That's probably why they're good at it.
Thought I'd better write that down.